It is special to go back to places that hold precious memories. To return with the people who were there when those memories were made and make some more.
For our last stop we returned to the river. To a place our family visited regularly when we first moved to Spokane. There is a suspension bridge there that crosses the river.
My dad died on May 28, 1997. My mother turned 75 the next day. For more than twenty years on the 28th we celebrated my dad's whole life and his dying day.
There was a natural progression of places Pat and I visited as we honored my parents' lives. We started with places that represented the lives they had lived.
There is a saying out there that "we are as sick as our secrets." As someone who grew up in a family with a secret - in this case that my dad had been in a mental institution when I was born - I ac